Finding love is not a matter of chance, but rather that you are ready to get such love. In a world where everyone swipes endlessly, has the quickest of meaningless contacts, and the most inconsequential encampment of emotions, the most radical love story starts not with the other person, but with the self. This 21-day journey is not about going out in search of love, but preparing the heart to receive a love that is longer-lasting, healing, soulful and genuine.
The moment you are in alignment with what you desire in thoughts, feelings, and energy, the process of bringing it to reality is no longer a possibility but a strong reality. Manifestation does not mean wishing more; it is being tuned to the life and love that you desire. By intention, attention and emotional alignment, you co-create with the universe, bringing the unseen to the seen, and the unloved to the loved.
Here, we divide the process into three effective weekly themes: clearing emotional space, embracing love and trusting the universe to provide. Every day, presents an easy but life-affirming exercise that enables you to fall in love, inside and out.
A new habit can take 21 days to attain, but even shorter to change your thoughts. You do not chase love; you attract love when you have tuned in to that dimension of love.
In three weeks, you are going to reprogram your internal environment and turn into a love magnet as you will go through an exclusive combination of emotional organization, attitude, daily practices, and universal timing.
Week Theme: “Love begins with letting go.”
The best way to make room to invite a new kind of love in is to clear out what doesn't serve you anymore: old heartbreaks, shit beliefs and theories, emotional clutter.
This week is an easy emotional cleanse: enjoy the opportunity to create gaps in your life, your heart and your energy system to be filled with something real and sustaining (instead of empty and hollow).
Day 1–3: Let Go of the Past: Start with releasing or saying goodbye to past emotional baggage. Journal about old heartbreaks and begin removing old stories from your mind.
Day 4-5, Clean Your Sacred Space: Clean and rearrange your bedroom, throw away whatever feels weighty - make a change in material objects that indicate your clarity of emotions.
Day 6–7: Set a Soul-Aligned Love Intention: Get specific - Are you in the mood for romance? Get into a peaceful relationship? — It can be proclaimed by scripts, vision boards or affirmation.
Week Theme: “Becoming the magnet.”
This week's talk is about becoming the zest that the love you desire wants. Because here is the honest thing: the love you are trying to find is already searching you out--but it may only find you in the form you must present yourself.
Day 8–9: Activate Self-Love: Each time you take a step to take care of yourself, you are telling the Universe: “I deserve it”. Make a Mirror Affirmation Start Your Day. Treat yourself like you would a partner.
Day 10-11: Feels like it is your Own: How does it feel to be loved? Supported? Desired? Exercise enters into that power with a visualization of movement or even music.
Day 12-13: Write Your Love Story: Change negative patterns of thinking, such as “there are no good men left, “no good men”, and so forth, to “love is plentiful and it will be with me”. The reality of your life is determined by your beliefs.
Day 14: Fix love as a routine: Light a rose-perfumed candle. Repeat an affirmative word in the morning. Night gratitude journal. Love should be a daily dedication.
At this point, you have completed the inner work. You have created intentions, raised your energy and matched your vibration. Last week was a week of surrender. You are not pushing. And you are not chasing but allowing.
** Day 15–16: Walk Like It’s Already Here:** Be the best you could be in the future, make choices, make a proper fit, feel confident, share your voice, and be someone who is greatly loved.
Day 17–18: Watch for Cosmic Clues: Pay attention. Love, as is the case regularly, can take rather unoffensive forms, such as a passing encounter, one of those angel numbers, or a long-lost friend showing up and contacting you unexpectedly.
Day 19–20: Detach with Trust: Forget the chronology. You have ordered--believe the delivery to the universe. Obsession prevents free flow. Appreciation unlocks the doors.
Day 21: Celebrate Your Inner Transformation: Recall the distance you have travelled till now. Before the person has even arrived, celebrate the many versions of you who are all now ready to receive him/her.
At the end of these 21 days, you are not only going to invite love into your life, you will change how you view yourself and how you value yourself. You will have gotten rid of what does not support you any longer, your energy shifted into the flow of love you want, and your heart is open with trust and hope.
Bear in mind that love does not come when you reach out to it like within a game of fetch, but when you are ready, it appears. And now you are prepared. May this trip serve as a reminder of how the most fabulous love tales start on the inside.