How do I clear my aura without shutting the love and warmth I still desire?

Namaste, Raghav. This is the classic struggle of the "Jupiterian" soul—the one who wants to expand and help but gets weighed down by others' Karma. The Astrological Perspective: Your birth in June 1995 suggests a sensitive Mercury. When you "shield" by shutting down, you are using a "Saturnian" defense—it’s cold and restrictive. This is why you feel aloof. The Solution & Remedy: You need "Filter Shielding" rather than "Wall Shielding." The Pink Light Shield: Instead of a hard wall, visualize a bubble of soft, rose-pink light. Pink is the color of unconditional love (Anahata). It allows love and warmth to flow in and out, but acts as a "mesh" that catches the "gray" energy (stress/venting) of others. Aura Cleansing Session: After friends vent to you, wash your hands up to the elbows in salt water. This "disconnects" the energetic cords without hardening your heart. You can remain soft while staying "clean.”