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Ritu

Ritu

a year ago

I am always worried about my family's health, what should be my course of action to heal my mental health?

Name: Ritu Date of Birth: 6 March 1990 Place of Birth: Jaipur Time: 02:50 PM. Panditji, I'm always worried about my parents' health even when they are absolutely fine. Coughing or skipping a meal gets me in a tizzy. I ask about them at least a dozen times a day and even monitor what they eat and sleep. I was told that my moon is in Cancer and I'm in a Rahu dasha could that be the reason I'm so fretful and overprotective? I want to know how to overcome this nagging fretfulness and trust that they're okay. How do I subdue this fear without guilt?

Acharya Ishan

Acharya Ishan

6 months ago

Namaste, Ritu. Caring for parents is noble, but "monitoring" them is a sign of your own internal unrest. The Problem: With your Moon in Cancer and a Rahu Dasha, your "mothering" instincts are hyper-inflated. Rahu creates smoke and mirrors; it makes you see "danger" where there is only a common cold. You are projecting your own fear of loss onto your parents’ health. The Solution & Remedies:Boundaries: Limit your health checks to once a day. If they look fine, they are fine. Trust their own bodies to tell them if they are sick. ● Anxiety Transference: When you worry about them, ask yourself: "What am I actually afraid of in my life right now?" ● Astrological Remedy: Feed birds or stray dogs. This satisfies Rahu's "hunger" for control and brings a sense of calm to your nurturing nature.