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7 months ago
What do I do if my social anxiety causes me to appear rude to friends?
Name: Aakash Date of Birth: 13 April 1993 Place of Birth: Nashik Time: 7:50 PM. I believe my social anxiety caused me to appear rude to some of my friends. I did not intend to ignore them or appear bored. I was just flustered and could not figure out how to react. Now I fear that they assume I don't care about what happened, and I feel bad for not being able to clarify myself. I want to make amends, but I don't know how I can discuss my anxiety without being dramatic. What can I do to make things right and clear up misunderstandings?
Acharya Kaushalji
6 months agoGreetings, Aakash. Born on the 13th of April in Nashik, you have the fiery energy of an Aries Sun, but a social "freeze" that creates a painful paradox. Aakash, your Aries Sun wants to be bold and direct, but your anxiety creates a "malfunction" in your Mars-Mercury connection. When you get "flustered," your brain goes into "Lockdown Mode." To your friends, this looks like you are ignoring them or being arrogant. In reality, your "Internal Computer" has crashed. The fear of being "dramatic" is your Saturn talking—it wants you to keep your struggles hidden. But by keeping them hidden, you allow the "Rude" label to stay. You must use the Mars courage of your Aries Sun to speak the truth. True friends (ruled by the 11th House) will respect the "Battle" you are fighting if you simply show them the "Wounds." The Cause: An affliction in the 11th House (Friendships) and the 3rd House (Communication). You have the fire to connect, but the "pipe" is blocked. Remedy & Solution: ● The Red Lentil Remedy: On Tuesdays, donate red lentils (Masoor Dal) to a kitchen or a needy person. This balances your Mars and helps you take "brave" social actions. ● Copper Bracelet: Wear a pure copper bracelet. It helps flow the "electrical" anxiety out of your body so you don't "freeze" in social moments. ● Mantra: Chant the Hanuman Chalisa or the mantra "Om Hanumate Namah" to gain the strength to speak your truth.
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