Neha
a year ago
Why do I feel lonely to an extent that is unbearable even though I attempt socializing?
Name: Neha Date of Birth: 12 January 1994 Place of Birth: Indore Time: 06:50 AM. Hello, I have been on my own for the last year and my loneliness is becoming unbearable. I avoid parties and social events because I am nervous around people, but the loneliness is taking a toll on me. I am trapped in a cycle. I yearn to connect but freeze up when I attempt to. Even normal conversation puts me on edge and I second-guess all of my words. I need to get out of this loop and feel normal once again. Can both loneliness and social anxiety be managed without putting myself into awkward situations?
Astro Ramji
10 months agoNamaste, Neha. Born in Indore in Capricorn season, you seek solid connections, but your "freeze" is preventing them. This is a Rahu-Saturn loop. Rahu creates the "Yearning" for connection, while Saturn creates the "Freeze" (fear of judgment). Loneliness is a Lunar hunger, but social anxiety is a Mercurial fear. The Cause: An afflicted 11th House (social circles) and a sensitive 1st House (self-image). Remedy & Solution: β The "Shadow" Connection: Start by joining online communities centered around your hobbies. This allows your Mercury to interact without the physical Mars-trigger of face-to-face interaction. β Venus Strengthening: Wear a Diamond or White Zircon. Venus is the planet of "attraction." Strengthening it makes you more approachable without you having to "try." β Mantra: Chant "Om Hreem Namah" (The mantra of the Divine Mother) to feel "nurtured" from within. Action: "Observation Socializing." Go to a park or a library. Be around people without the obligation to talk. This "desensitizes" your nervous system to the presence of others