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Neha

Neha

8 months ago

Why do I feel lonely to an extent that is unbearable even though I attempt socializing?

Name: Neha Date of Birth: 12 January 1994 Place of Birth: Indore Time: 06:50 AM. Hello, I have been on my own for the last year and my loneliness is becoming unbearable. I avoid parties and social events because I am nervous around people, but the loneliness is taking a toll on me. I am trapped in a cycle. I yearn to connect but freeze up when I attempt to. Even normal conversation puts me on edge and I second-guess all of my words. I need to get out of this loop and feel normal once again. Can both loneliness and social anxiety be managed without putting myself into awkward situations?

Astro Ramji

Astro Ramji

4 months ago

Namaste, Neha. Born in Indore in Capricorn season, you seek solid connections, but your "freeze" is preventing them. This is a Rahu-Saturn loop. Rahu creates the "Yearning" for connection, while Saturn creates the "Freeze" (fear of judgment). Loneliness is a Lunar hunger, but social anxiety is a Mercurial fear. The Cause: An afflicted 11th House (social circles) and a sensitive 1st House (self-image). Remedy & Solution: ● The "Shadow" Connection: Start by joining online communities centered around your hobbies. This allows your Mercury to interact without the physical Mars-trigger of face-to-face interaction. ● Venus Strengthening: Wear a Diamond or White Zircon. Venus is the planet of "attraction." Strengthening it makes you more approachable without you having to "try." ● Mantra: Chant "Om Hreem Namah" (The mantra of the Divine Mother) to feel "nurtured" from within. Action: "Observation Socializing." Go to a park or a library. Be around people without the obligation to talk. This "desensitizes" your nervous system to the presence of others

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