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Aarti

Aarti

a year ago

Why do I feel tense and anxious around my family?

I’m Aarti, 27, born on 14th August 1996 at 7:45 AM in Bangalore, newly married and living with my husband. Whenever my in-laws suddenly call me to family gatherings, I feel my throat drying up, palms sweating, and I look for excuses not to go. My husband thinks I’m just shy, but deep inside it feels heavier than that.

Astro Arjuna

Astro Arjuna

a year ago

Namaste Aarti, . Many people feel this way after marriage because everything is new and you are still adjusting. The placement of moon in your chart also makes you an overthinker. Take small steps. Try staying in such gatherings for short periods and slowly increase your comfort level. If you feel something is truly bothering you, talk to your husband calmly so he understands how you feel. I did 1 card tarot reading also - Temperance - means balance and patience. It says you do not need to rush. With time and little effort things will be better. Do deep breathing before family meetings and tell yourself, “I am safe and I can handle this.” Within a few months, you will notice the difference. Remedies for you - 1. Do 5 minutes of Anulom Vilom breathing each day. 2. Must do yog nidra meditation before you sleep 3. Keep a rose quartz crystal under your pillow.