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Ishita Rao

Ishita Rao

8 months ago

Why does my sister have to panic in reuniting with the parents of her partner yet she wants to impress them?

Name: Ishita Rao Date of Birth: 14th August 2004 Place of Birth: Hyderabad Time of Birth: 6:10 AM. My sister Ishita feels that she develops chronic anxiety every time she encounters the parents of her partner. She experiences tightness in her chest and tremor in her hands even after rehearsing conversations and she arrives. Some times she would rather get away than continue to live in fear because the fear is unbearable. This has seen her stay out of family meetings, although she is actually keen to interact. The question I would have is whether astrology can be used to determine why she is so responsive under these circumstances and whether her reactions can be explained through the characteristic position of planets that can make her highly responsive to social pressure.

Astro Amit

Astro Amit

6 months ago

Answer - Ishita gets really nervous when she meets her partner's parents. This is because of anxiety in high-pressure situations. It is not that she is not interested or not confident, she just wants to make an impression on them and that is very valid. So she is scared of their reaction. This fear makes her feel bad. She gets a chest, her heart beats very fast and she starts to shake. This happens even when she practices what she wants to say. Ishita's mind is always thinking about what they think of her. This makes it very hard for her to relax. She is always thinking about anxiety, in high-pressure situations and how it is affecting her. The urge to leave comes from emotional overload, not avoidance of the people themselves. Skipping meetings can then increase anxiety over time. This is not being self centered, but very sensitive to societal views. Astrology may suggest emotional responsiveness but it is not a tool for self evaluation or a psychological tool on how one should behave or think. However, planetary positions do not cause panic. These reactions are learned and can be reduced with understanding and support.