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Neha

Neha

a year ago

Should I move on from outgrowing friendships

Lately, I’ve been feeling like I don’t connect with my old friends anymore. The things we used to talk about don’t interest me, and I find myself craving deeper conversations.  But every time I try to distance myself, I feel guilty like I’m betraying the people who were once so important to me.  Am I wrong for wanting to move on? Will I ever find friendships that truly align with who I am becoming?
(Neha, DOB: 28 Jun 1999, 11:30 AM, Ahmedabad)

Astro Arjuna

Astro Arjuna

9 months ago

You are a Cancer, an extremely loyal and emotionally involved individual in the people you love. On your chart, it is clear that the Moon, which is the ruler of your planet, is in a period during which Saturn affects it in terms of energy. Saturn is a sign of maturity, experiences in life, and gradual yet gradual change. This force tends to lead to a feeling of emotional shedding where you are innately leaving behind any relationships that do not resonate with that personal development. Your 11th house (friendships and social circles) is changing, which means that this is not necessary that you were leaving people behind; it is rather because your soul was in having relationships that align with your values, interests, and energy now. Your guilt is caused by the attachment of your Moon to the past, and it happens because, astronomically, this is an evolutionary change and not a betrayal. The positive is that you will be able to find more people to share similar interests in the next celestial year based on hobbies, academic settings, and feelings. These new relationships will be much more organic and satisfying instead of attempting to fit into old relationships. Remedies: 1. Moon Healing: Every Monday, light a white candle and write down your emotions in 5 minutes — this will clear your emotional guilt. 2. Saturn Balance: Give black sesame seeds or assist someone in need on Saturdays to make any transition smoother. 3. Activation of Friendship: Put on a silver bracelet or a chain to emit the caring, feeling of appropriate friendship. 4. Gemstone: When the Moon occupies a good position in your chart, wear a Pearl set (5-6 carats) of Silver on the little finger on Monday morning, 6-8 AM. 5. Practical Step: If you want to break your ties so harshly, it would be better to allow the old friendships to degrade, and in the meantime, actively invest in spaces you are eager to work with (hobby groups, courses, or communities) with which you will find people to connect with your current self.