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Ayesha

Ayesha

7 months ago

How do I know whether I'm shy or socially anxious?

Name: Ayesha Date of Birth: 12 May 1999 Place of Birth: Bengaluru Time: 1:30 PM. I've always been shy and quiet, especially in new places. But recently, I began to feel nervous even in comfortable situations. My heart beats quickly, I look away, and I obsess over conversations in my mind for hours on end. I'm lost as to whether it's mere shyness or something more. I don't want to unnecessarily tag myself, but at the same time, I want to know. How can I tell if I'm inherently shy or experiencing social anxiety?

Acharya Nagarjuna

Acharya Nagarjuna

3 months ago

Hello Ayesha. Your Bengaluru birth in May gives you a "Taurus" desire for peace. The Cause: Shyness is a personality trait; your heart beating fast is a Rahu-driven anxiety. You are crossing the line from "quiet" to "avoidant." Remedy & Solution:Green Therapy: Spend 20 minutes with indoor plants. Mercury (communication) is ruled by the color green and the earth. ● Gemstone: An Emerald (after consultation) will help "fix" your wavering Mercury. ●Action: The "Post-Mortem Rule." After a social event, you are allowed 5 minutes to think about it. Then, you must "burn" the thought and move on.