Why do I feel anxious and want to leave birthday parties, even though I love celebrating, despite professional advice?

Answer - Aarav you are going through something called social anxiety. This means that fun things like birthday parties can make you feel really scared. Your body gets nervous because it thinks that other people are judging you. You might feel your heart beating fast, you might feel dizzy, your chest might feel tight and you might want to get out of there. These feelings are not because you do not want to be around people, they are your body's way of reacting to stress. You can get help from a therapist, a doctor. Learn some ways to deal with these feelings. It will take some time to get better. Avoidance of parties makes the thought of going to each party even more scary. This is not something to be ashamed of, it is just that our body gets stressed when we think about parties. We can get better at dealing with this stress if we keep putting ourselves in these situations and learn to calm down and be kind to ourselves. Parties will still be hard to go to. We can make it easier for ourselves, over time. You get really attached to the people you know. Some people who look at the stars and planets might say that you are more aware of what other peoples' thinking about you.. The truth is, the stars and planets do not make you feel panicked or anxious in social situations. There are lots of people who have the stars and planets in their charts as you do and they can go to parties and have a good time without feeling bad. This just shows that it is not something that is meant to be. The stars and planets can give us ideas about what kind of person we're but the reason you react really strongly to things is because of the way you have learned to deal with things and because you are afraid of what other people will think of you. Your Cancer Sun is still a part of who you're and it is what makes you sensitive and caring but it is not what makes you anxious, in social situations. True improvement comes from practice, regulation, and gradually building confidence, not planetary positions.