Why do others dislike us socially anxious people?

Namaste, Rupal. Born in Kanpur in October, your Libra Sun seeks harmony, but your birth time suggests an intense internal landscape where the "fear of the other" has become a spiritual wall. Rupal, it is a painful truth that social anxiety often projects a "defensive" frequency. In astrology, the 1st House (your personality/mask) and the 7th House (how others see you) are always opposite. When your 1st House is clouded by a difficult Rahu or Saturn influence, your energy becomes "contracted." People do not "dislike" you; they are reacting to the protective energy field you have put up. Most people are not intuitive; they cannot distinguish between "I am scared" and "I am bored." Because you are quiet and avoidant, their own insecurities (ruled by the Moon) get triggered. They think, "Rupal isn't talking to me, so she must not like me." It is a mirror effect. Your anxiety makes them feel socially "rejected" by you, so they pull away as a defense mechanism. The Cause: This is an affliction of Venus (the planet of attraction) and Mercury (expression). When these planets are weak or under the gaze of Saturn, your "social magnetism" gets turned off, leaving only the "shield" visible to others. Remedy & Solution: ● The Honey Remedy: Every morning, consume a spoonful of honey mixed with warm water. Honey is ruled by Venus and helps "sweeten" your internal and external vibration. ● Gemstone: Wear a White Zircon or a small Diamond on your middle finger to boost your charm and break the "dull" perception others have of you. ● Mantra: Chant the Shukra Beej Mantra: "Om Shum Shukraya Namah" to invite social grace back into your life. ● The "Social Signal" Action: Since your anxiety makes you quiet, use "Active Listening" signals. Nod more frequently and maintain a soft, slight smile. This sends a non-verbal message that says, "I am engaged and friendly," even if your voice is frozen. It changes the "Dull" label to "Thoughtful.”