Anonymous
9 months ago
Why does forcing a smile in Metta feel unnatural and like toxic positivity?
The guide recommends a gentle smile in Metta, though when I attempt to do it when I am sad, the smile is uncomfortable and completely unnatural. I fear that I am merely going through the motions of toxic positivity. I am afraid that I am employing the practice to repress the true feelings instead of embracing them. Is it through the imposition of external positivity that emotional repression is actually caused, or is it that the nervous system itself is actually being fooled into feeling improved? My name is Deepa, DOB 12th September 1990. Time: 10:40 AM. Location: Chennai.
Astro Meera
4 months agoNamaste Deepa. A fake smile is a mask; the soul doesn't need masks. Born September 12, 1990, in Chennai, your chart possesses a "Strong Virgo/Mercury" sense of "Authenticity." You hate "Fakes." Forcing a smile when you are sad feels like "Toxic Positivity" because it invalidates your true lunar state. While the nervous system can sometimes be "Fooled" into feeling better (the facial-feedback hypothesis), for your specific chart, this creates "Inner Friction" and "Emotional Repression." Detailed Solution: Stop the smile. The "Authentic" Metta:* Replace the "Smile" with a "Soft Jaw." Simply relax the muscles of your face. This sends the signal of "Safety" to the brain without the "Lie" of a smile. Acceptance of sadness is a much higher spiritual state than forced happiness. Detailed Remedies: Remedy: Inhale through the nose and Sigh out through the mouth. This is the "Sound of Truth" for your nervous system. Mudra: Use the "Pushpaputa Mudra" (Offering of flowers) to symbolize offering your true feelings to the universe. Mantra: Chant "Aum" and feel the vibration in your belly.
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