Can my ex be my soulmate, or was it a toxic relationship

Your charts indicate a karmic connection (MoonKetu energy), which can be experienced as a soulmate, but is in fact a karmic lesson. That is why you are so attached, although it was unhealthy. This was to provide you with self-worth and limits. Guidance: It was a good move that you made to walk away. A relationship with a soulmate must make you feel good, not exhausted. On your chart, you will find a love bond that is healthier after 33. Therefore, rather than mourn about what you lost, view it as moving out to allow the right partner. Remedies: 1. Light a diya on every Monday evening (to pacify Moon's emotions) with ghee. 2. Wear a rose quartz pendant (to heal the energy of the heart). 3. Write and burn a letter to get out the energy of your ex. 4. Say positive things about yourself every day to rewrite the energy.