Why do I get headaches after long arguments — is my aura reacting?

Name: Diya Sen

DOB: 19 October 2001

Time: 6:50 PM

Place: Kolkata, India

I can't argue with people and when I do that, I have this throbbing pain in my head and I feel really restless, like I want to throw things or harm myself... Is this my aura reacting to such energy clashes? How can I clear these tensions?